So now a days we women sit and sometimes wonder what do men find attractive in a women
(its confusing because at times I am certain that men don't know what they want)....What is that something special that gets his blood raising and heart beating.....so I have come up with a list and guys feel free to jump in if you feel I am wrong.
- Sense of Humour (learn to not take life so seriously, laugh together or at others hehehe)
- Youthfulness (Is a state of mind, you are as young as you feel you are, that's why i will always be 25 at heart hehe)
- Patience (No guy wants to hear how many kids you want, what your wedding colours are, and where you want to live on the first date even I will run away)
- Self care & Beauty (seriously get it together you can't attract a man if your weave is hanging off your face, your manicure and pedicure is screaming save us and your body odour follows you around like a shadow)
- Intelligence (Don't act like you are a walking dictionary or a news anchor but learn how to hold a conversation that will simulate his intellect)
- Not 'Needing' but 'Wanting' (Being needed will stroke his ego and make him feel good about himself, but there’s an even greater possibility he’ll eventually freak out and run)
- Integrity (Don't be afraid to stand up for yourself, let him know you are not a yes yes madam but at the same time don't over do it just keep it real.)
- Love (because after all is said and done he needs to know that your love is what keeps the fire burning)
Those are my top 8 tips....so guys do you agree?
4 comments:
My gurl u no lie jare! lol! Especially number four. Gosh! nothing is more unattractive than a babe with body odour or bad breath! With the manicure thing, trust me, you can actually take time to have your nails done, and within minutes have them smudged or chipped! So annoying, but, you are right, no excuse to carry 1/3 half polished nails out n about! And the weave?! Dont get me started! lol!
You're right about 5 & 7. Some guys prefer women who can relate intellectually rather than an empty box saying yes to everything...lol
As an avid follower of your blog, I would have to say that this is an excellent piece. I agree with all points on this this subject
oops, i left as Anonymous...it is miss LK!
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